Donald Trump and Melania ‘sleep separately’ - but he tries to 'outdo her'

 


A new tell-all book dropping this week is giving readers a peek behind the curtain of life inside the Trump White House and one of its more eyebrow-raising claims has nothing to do with politics. It's about sleeping arrangements.

Regime Change: Inside the Imperial Presidency of Donald Trump, authored by Maggie Haberman and Jonathan Swan of the New York Times, covers the first year of Donald Trump's second term. Released on June 23, the book paints a vivid picture of the First Couple's domestic life one where husband and wife are not exactly sharing a pillow.

Separate Rooms, Separate Agendas

According to the book, Melania has taken over the master bedroom, while Donald has set up in a former living room. That alone might raise a few eyebrows, but what makes it more interesting is what the President allegedly did next. Rather than accept his situation quietly, Trump reportedly moved gold decorative items ones Melania had personally selected for a hallway into his own room. The suggestion, it seems, was that if he couldn't have the better location, he'd at least surround himself with better décor.

It's the kind of detail that feels almost too specific to make up.

This Isn't the First Time

Rumors about the Trumps sleeping in separate rooms are nothing new. Back in 2018, author Michael Wolff made similar claims in his controversial book Fire and Fury: Inside the Trump White House. Wolff wrote that Trump found the White House unsettling and quickly retreated to his own bedroom reportedly making him the first president since John F. Kennedy to maintain separate sleeping quarters from his spouse.

Trump's response to the new book was predictably blunt. Taking to X, he dismissed it as "really boring and untruthful."

"Trump Love Is Really Complicated"

Biographer Mary Jordan, who spoke extensively with White House staff for her own research, offered perhaps the most candid take on the relationship. Speaking to CNN, she described the dynamic between Donald and Melania as genuinely puzzling even to those who observe it up close.

Jordan noted that the couple spends what she called "a shocking amount of time physically apart," often occupying the same building without ever really crossing paths. Melania rarely visits the West Wing, has her own private spa space, and by most accounts keeps very much to herself. Trump, too, is described as something of a loner.

And yet, Jordan pointed out, one of the first calls Trump often makes after finishing a speech or rally is to Melania. "It's a mystery," she said simply.

How It All Started

Whatever the current state of their relationship, the Trump love story does have a memorable origin. The two first crossed paths in 1998 at a New York party where Trump was, notably, there with another date. That didn't stop him from trying to get Melania's number.

She wasn't having it, though. In a 2016 interview with Harper's Bazaar, Melania recalled flipping the script on him: she refused to hand over her number and instead took his, saying she wanted to see whether he'd give her a real personal contact or just a business card. He apparently gave her everything office number, Mar-a-Lago, his New York home, the works.

"I was struck by his energy," she told the magazine. "He has an amazing sense of vitality."

They married in 2005 and share one son, Barron Trump. Two decades and two presidential terms later, they may sleep in different rooms but by all accounts, theirs remains one of the more quietly fascinating relationships in American public life.

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